![]() 01/31/2016 at 03:27 • Filed to: Alfa romeo, Mito, Qv | ![]() | ![]() |
I broke last week the time honored code,
“You dont s#*t were you eat”.
Got shoot down by a lovely lady at my workplace.
And now, im left to deal with the awkwardness.
On a happier note!
My Alfa Romeo MITO ( named Alberto)
Is one year old tomorrow!
![]() 01/31/2016 at 03:46 |
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i’m guessing you asked her out , and she said no.
![]() 01/31/2016 at 03:49 |
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You really don’t shit where you eat. I did that mistake last year and now I’m stuck in the same class at school as my ex gf..
![]() 01/31/2016 at 03:59 |
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Yep,
im just bummed out, because i really thought that this time it will be different.
It seemed to me i got from her all the signals that shes interested..
![]() 01/31/2016 at 04:19 |
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Mate. Your not the first and you certainly won’t be the last to break that rule.
You gave it a go and it didn’t pay off, but if you don’t take risks you’ll never know. So well done for having the nerve to ask.
You asked and that’s it. It may be easier said than done but try not to be awkward round her. At least not till you know how she’s going to react to you.
It could of been worse and she said yes, you go out and once your friends are assimilated into ‘our’ friends, things so Pete-Tong and suddenly neither you, her or all your friends know what to say or do. Bullet dodged.
![]() 01/31/2016 at 05:15 |
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![]() 01/31/2016 at 08:48 |
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Man, I can’t even count how many times I’ve committed this ‘bobo’. I have like a thousand tiny part time jobs that consume all of my time. I don’t have any left over for mingling at the bar or whatever, and neither do any potential mates because they’re all doing what I’m doing. Writing off the women I work would also mean being cut off from any opportunity at all.
Don’t shit where you eat? Screw that. Take the shot. If you miss, shit happens. You’ll either both get over it or find new jobs.
![]() 01/31/2016 at 10:52 |
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I wouldn't really look at it so much as taking a shit where you eat. It's more like taking a shit at the mall, you go there for a reason but why not fuck around a little bit too.
![]() 01/31/2016 at 11:17 |
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“Mate.”
That’s not Mate (Petrany)!
That’s (Jewish) Stig... aka Feivel Loxencreamcheesebagelman!!
![]() 01/31/2016 at 11:39 |
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‘Mate’, was not meant as in a name but as in a colloquialism such as buddy, bloke, geezer, fella, man, etc...
![]() 01/31/2016 at 11:43 |
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I was joking ya old geezer...
:-)
![]() 01/31/2016 at 11:47 |
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You do it out of circumstance in that you don’t have time to look for someone else outside your work environment and you’ve not doubt learnt how to deal with the situation when you get knocked back.
But for others dealing with that sort of situation can be unsettling with ‘what do I say next time we see each other?’, ‘has she told her friends and they are laughing about it?’, ‘I don’t find it awkward, but what if she does, then I’ll then find it awkward’, etc...
![]() 01/31/2016 at 11:53 |
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Sorry fella. Didn’t catch it.
![]() 01/31/2016 at 12:14 |
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No problem, Buddy!
![]() 01/31/2016 at 13:18 |
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Cool man.